Friday, August 22, 2008

WHY ???

" Why must a heart break? Why must a tear drop? ....

....and why did I forget where I was going with this quote?

Thursday, August 21, 2008

'Open' Hearts to People who are 'Close'

I read the following quote on the gtalk status message of a friend ...

"Who said that open and close are with opposite meanings? You will always be open to the person...who is close to you!"

I so very much agree with this ....

BUT ... then my recent experience has raised a tough question .... How Much ????

How much open can one be to closed ones ? How much open should one be to closed ones ?
i have never thought about this ever ... till recently. I was always an open book for my close ones. My best friends knew what was on my mind and what wa happening in my life. By sharing my life details with them, i got to understand myself better. I got to understand the situation better from a third person point of view. I got to understand my own mistakes which i would have not realised myself.

And then ... recently ... i lost a friend to this openness ... and am on the verge fo losing another ... in the end it amounted to me sharing too much about my life with them ... "sharing" which was the very foundation of our friendship (in my opinion) became the problem.

I no longer understand the Open and CLose quote ... bcos in my case ... The very fact that i was open ... is making my close ones move away ...

The openness bringing a close to a very beautiful friendship ... and another beautiful friendship ....

Life is strange !!

Monday, August 18, 2008


Got this as a forward and thought of putting it here ... a touch of humour !!

Dear Wife:
I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you forever. I'vebeen a good man to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it.These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that youquit your job today and that was the last straw.
Last week, you came home and didn't even notice that I had a new haircut,had cooked your favourite meal and even wore a brand new pair of silkboxers. You ate in two minutes, and went straight to sleep after watchingall of your soaps. You don't tell me you love me anymore; you don't wantsex or anything that connects us as husband and wife. Either you'recheating on me or you don't love me anymore; whatever the case,
I'm gone.
Your EX-Husband

P.S. Don't try to find me. Your SISTER and I are moving away to WestVirginia together! Have a great life!
Dear Ex-Husband -
Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It's true that youand I have been married for seven years, although a good man is a far cryfrom what you've been. I watch my soaps so much because they drown outyour constant whining and griping. Too bad that doesn't work.

I DID noticewhen you got a hair cut last week, but the first thing that came to mind was"You look just like a girl!" Since my mother raised me not to say anythingif you can't say something nice, I didn't comment. And when you cooked myfavourite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because Istopped eating pork seven years ago.
About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the $49.99price tag was still on them, and I prayed that it was a coincidence that mysister had just borrowed fifty dollars from me that morning. After all ofthis, I still loved you and felt that we could work it out. So when I hitthe lotto for ten million dollars, I quit my job and bought us two ticketsto Jamaica. But when I got home you were gone. Everything happens for areason, I guess.
I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said thatthe letter you wrote ensures you won't get a dime from me.
So take care.
Signed,Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell and Free!
P.S. I don't know if I ever told you this, but my sister Carla was bornCarl. I hope that's not a problem.

Smile !!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

What happens when you feel lonely and empty from the inside?

This Happens ....

You cant think of anything to write !!

Friday, August 08, 2008

Loneliness !!!

2 quotes ... which touched my heart ... in fact .. which pierced my heart !!

Loneliness is about the scariest thing there is.
It's so lonely when you don't even know yourself !