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Thursday, August 26, 2004

Time Dependancy of Relationships

hi friends ....

Long time i last wrote ... have been very busy ....

I guess ... one thing i have learnt in the past few weeks is that i m not a very good time manager... nor can i handle relationships in the best possible manner ....

After joining NITIE after summers on June 20 .... I have been busy ... simply busy ....
First it was the Induction Program for the incoming batch of 100+ very interesting people. Each one unique in their own way. Some of them beautiful too.

The Induction program was a nice experience. Interacting with so many people in such a short span of time. Found some good friends and a very very good friend amongst them.

A friend with whom i could actually talk about the history and geography of my life. We had a great chemistry between us.

I write 'had' because lately .. .we have been so busy that we dont get to spend time together. We hardly know what is going on in each others life. And i feel that it is not something which should happen between best friends. Best friends meet everyday ... several times a day .... can spend hours together saying nothing much but enzoying each other's company.

Strange ... we are in the same campus. It is hardly a wlk of 3 - 4 minutes between our rooms. But we meet once in a while. We are both busy and the trouble is most of the time we are busy at diffrent times.

Come september my dear friend will have the summer internship preocesses in progress. By the time half the sept is over, exams will be on the head. Starting from 20th.

Once exams are over, next is Prerana .... our institutes grand event. Both of us will become busy in poreparation of the same along with many other students of our PGDIM course.

It will be mid Oct by the time it all ends ... I m not sure if fate will permit us to spend time together even then. After Prerana, a lot of work will still be there. Diwali will be round the corner. People will rush home. Me too.

Back : End of October / Start of November ...
well ... how much time do i still have in NITIE. December will be filled again with Fianl placement processes for me, Exams for both ... Januray will bring the ruthless placements ... and then .... my time in the campus is OVER.

No more chance of spending time with this special friend of mine. Our friendship will remain forever locked into a time frame. Something which came to a stand still ... a realtionship which could have grown beyond my imagination but stopped short due to lack of availabilty of time.

I m not sure if my friend agrees ... but i feel time spent together ... quality as well as quantity goes a long way in strengthening any relationship ... the bond become stronger with each interaction ,,, and tend to weakena s time gap between two consecutive interactions increases.

No relationship will ever die. NEVER. but of course, lack of communication does has its own negative effects on it.

I am right now busy with a project about which i will soon write. All i can write now is that the project is finally come into the real form in the real world and is known as MastishK ...

:: MastishK :: The Brain :: The Mind :: .... More abt it later ...

I write this blog at 5:03 Am in early morning.

have not slept and i guess ... now i have to decide wether i sleep now or not .... i have a lecture at 9 for which i cannot be late !!

well ... let me write something more on something else ....
something about Mumbai rains ... Mumbai Beaches .... the Mumbai Sea ....
adn then about a wet pair of jeans which takes 3/4 days to dry !!

well ... it was our dear friend Medda's Bday ... and we suddenly decided to celebrate his belated Bday .... all of us ... Me, Medda, Milind, Payal, Ashita, Shubham, Nikhil ... all of us ... Lucky 7 ... set out on a journey towards GORAI BEACH . . . .

We travelled by Bus, Auto, Steamer, . . . It was fun ... we had a lot of fun in the sea...
And yes .. .. The rajastahni boy Medda ... walked into the cool cool sea for the first time in his life. . . . Every body enzoyed thorougly ....


Mumbai rains which had kept all in respective rooms and hostels since several days ... simply kept quite for the whole day .... it behaved like a spoil sport ....

Coming the pair of jeans ... it got wet .... soiled in the wet beach soil ... dirty ...
I put it in water for rinsing almost 24 hours ... and then it kept drying for the next 3 days ... 72 hours .... Mumbai rains and monsoon clouds refused to let the sun comeout and throw its sunlight on my jeans ....

My new 'shoOOonya' design T Shirt also got soiled .... hope it turns white again ....

we;; .... now its 5:27 am .... i better catch some sleep ... have a tiring day ahead.

First lecture at 9 Am... last lecture getting over by 9 PM ..... 12 hour marathon lectures.

c ya then .... u can add comments or simply mail me on ' hemantkumarjain@gmail.com '



keep smiling be happy ... . .. . .

1 comment:

  1. well .. u r the lucky one ... my jeans is still wet as of 1.30 AM 28th of August ....
    Talking about relationships I dont know what your perspective of life is ... I realised it long ago that one has to choose between a personal life and a public life ...
    A personal life includes - studying well, having a few good friends(with whom u discuss almost everthing), having career centric model-of-life while spending time with your family ...
    A public life is devoid of very-very personal relationships, at times it might eat into your studies and career /proffession ... and probably family life too ... but it involves interaction with lots iof people .. experiencing a wide array of activities etc etc . .
    I believe your conclusion that you are not a good time/relationship manager is wrong. Its just that you are yet to make your choice - and now that you are engaged in a public affair, you find the personal part of your life suffering. And the day when you leave this and start concentrating on your personal life - whether you realise it or not - your public life will suffer.
    So I suggest you should carefully decide what kind of life 'YOU' want. The day you do, you migth stop feeling left out of anything. Because you would have chosen to refuse what you are not getting !!
    Well that might sound like all Gyan ..but its from hard experience that i've writen this... now dont ask me what experience?? ... i wont speak ... keep guessing !! ;)

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