the paradox of love

I would hate to see the one I love happy with somebody
but I surely hate it more to see the one I love unhappy with me...

life is so complicated ... feelings far more complicated ...

you can hardly hate someone you love ... not even when the person hurts you ...

the above quote is not exactly true in the use of the word 'hate' in the first part ... a person cannot hate to see the person happy for whom there is love in the heart ... it can be sad if you are not part of the happiness ... it can be painful ... it can be exruciatingly painful .. yes .. but you cant hate that situation .. your happiness is often tied to the happiness of the person you love ...

BUT ... what if you become the source of pain for the person you love ... then what do you do ?

Do you push that person away from you to protect them from yourself ... in this you will cause pain to yourself no doubt but at the same time you will also cause pain to the same person you love .. so u end up causing pain to avoid pain ...

why does life have to be so complicated ... full of paradox ...

and why is it that i am not able to think ... anything ...

Comments

  1. JigyasaMon Aug 04, 03:44:00 PM

    May be I know why you aren't able to think anything.....and I am wondering why I have to tell you this....the ever-positive person I ever met.....

    All I can say is, sometimes we have to live for what we have and not for what we lost....so please say cheese and....

    ..................keep smiling!!!

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  2. AnonymousTue Aug 05, 09:20:00 PM

    Life wudnt be life if it is not this way...Paradox at every corner..!!!!


    Well thats why its been said Love is a abysmal pit...

    liked reading it

    Take Care
    Sur!

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