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Assume That I Can and I Will

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Very Powerful.  Extremely Powerful.  The Most Powerful Thing you see Today.  Need I say more?  And having seen this, What is your takeaway?  #CoachHemant #GrowthMindset #LeadershipDevelopment  #AssumeThatICan #WDSD24 #WorldDownSyndromeDay #EndTheStereotypes   

The Impossible Double Standards of Being a Woman

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  Rita Moreno acknowledged America Ferrera's monologue in Barbie at the Academy Awards. One of the highlights of Greta Gerwig's Barbie is when Gloria (America Ferrera) delivers a monologue on the impossible double standards of being a woman. Gloria's full monologue from Barbie (2023): It is literally impossible to be a woman.  You are so beautiful and so smart,  and it kills me that you don't think you're good enough.  Like, we have to always be extraordinary,  but somehow we're always doing it wrong. You have to be thin, but not too thin.  And you can never say you want to be thin.  You have to say you want to be healthy,  but also you have to be thin.  You have to have money,  but you can't ask for money  because that's crass.  You have to be a boss,  but you can't be mean.  You have to lead,  but you can't squash other people's ideas.  You're supposed to love being a mother,  but don't talk about you...

The Dichotomy of Leadership and Life

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  Because Humans are incredibly intelligent and supremely stupid at the same time, we can be simultaneously dichotomous at the same time.  We can be incredibly logical and believe in ghosts at the same time.  We can be super confident and a nervous wreck at the same time.  We can be gentle and strict with someone at the same time.  We can be ambitious as well as relaxed at the same time.   We can love and hate someone at the same time. We can be happy and sad at the same time.  Key to unravelling this mystery is to understand  the fact that the 'opposites' we are thinking about  are not actually opposites but just two states of mind that we can simultaneously experience in the same moment. We humans are complex beings and the simple interesection of   logic and emotions gives rise to most complicated mental scenarios.  So don't take things way too seriously. Live in the moment.  Don't be overwhelmed by thhe multitude ...